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Vibrators for Couples

Frankly, like most things about couple sex, it's all about the intimacy. After all, if you're a couple, you probably already have "our song," "our fav hangout," "our private code talk," so why not extend it to having "our vibrators"? And one of the most intimacy-inducing things about vibrators is selecting and buying one or more together or as a gift.

I admit, I'm a long-time veteran in this since I bought my first "for us" vibe over 30 years ago, back in the day when the only option was the plain white, rocket-shaped vibrator. My then-GF told me she wanted one so she wouldn't have to sneak her Mom's all the time, so we headed out to the local adult toy store. You guessed it, back then it was a semi-sleazy dive featuring mostly raunchy skin-mags and quarter-slot mini-booths behind a dirty black curtain. We bought the only available model without embarrassment and later that night gave it a workout.

A lot of guys still have weird hangups about dildos and vibes, but they shouldn't. They need to realize it is not a threat, but exactly what it's called: a sex TOY. Toys are for playing with and when you can bring that sense of childish pleasure of imagination and fun to the sex table, you're bound to enjoy what can be done. Selecting and buying one together as a couple immediately connects to your imagined sensual pleasures of its use and I highly recommend the experience to new and older relationship couples.

Of course, the variety today is vast and you can find dozens of different shapes, sizes and intensities right here at SinlessTouch.com, such as Rabbit vibrators or vibes specifically for g-spot stimulation or clitoral stimulation or with a realistic look and feel. My advice is to start with one simple to operate, made of a safe materials, and of average size. If you're just starting to experiment with vibrators in couple sex, you don't want to jump in immediately with a huge NASCAR quality machine. Eventually, as you become more experienced, you can always advance and upgrade.

If you're part of a newbie couple, one of the best ways to introduce a vibrator to your intimate activities is with a playful attitude and as an adjunct to oral sex. The tingling and penetration of a vibrator almost seems to be the ideal partner' to the kissing, licking, and sucking of giving good head.' For heterosexual women, using a vibe as a pulsing extra finger' on his scrotal sac, the tip and sides of his penis, nipples, or anus will make your mouth and tongue actions all that more sensational. For heterosexual guys, while you make mouth and tongue love to her labia, and clitoris, the vibe stimulates her nerve sensations and can be used as a penetration and massage toy to great advantage. Again, I emphasize the toy' aspect of a vibrator. Don't just concentrate on the genitals, explore his/her body with it, play' the vibe everywhere and anywhere to excite his/her whole body. If used as a penetrator, remember to use plenty of lube and a condom covering. Safe sex isn't just for human genitals. Most sex experts recommend using a condom over penetration vibrators. And it makes good sense for easy cleanup afterward.