how to use a anal sex toy at first time

For first time users of anal sex toys, it is important to remember that using any kind of flexible jelly type toys may be hard to insert as you may be tensing and inadvertently keeping your sphincter muscle tight and closed, not allowing the toy to enter. You may also want to avoid using a toy that is overly hard as you need to get used to what this feels like and because of inexperience you may cause damage. Therefore using something like a Silicone dildo is a good toy to start with as it is soft, yet firm enough for entry. It also has a great handle for easy maneuvering.