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The Forehand: This is the one that most men do - the 'missionary' of solo sex. Wrap your fingers around the shaft of your penis so your thumb is at the head. As you glide your hand up and down the shaft of the penis, your thumb will give direct stimulation to the coronial ridge - your most sensitive spot!

The Backhand: This is like the Forehand, but in the opposite direction. Instead of having your thumb at the head of your penis, it will now be at the bottom of the shaft with your fingers, giving you a different sensation.

An Extra Hand: Try sitting on your hand until it goes completely numb. Then begin to masturbate and you will feel as if someone else is doing it for you. It's one of those old wives' tales that's actually true!

Pelvic Thrusts: Hold your penis with one hand at the bottom and then make your other hand into a fist. Then thrust your penis into your fist by lifting your pelvis up and down in a rhythmic motion. If you use plenty of lubrication this will feel as though you have your own vagina to play with.

Double Fists: Make a fist with both of your hands and place them on top of each other in the air just above your penis. Make sure that you apply plenty of lubricant and then slide your fists back and forth over your penis. Vary the speed to give a different sensation or you could try tightening your grip to intensify the feeling.

Twisting: This is a mixture of the Forehand grip and the Backhand. Start at the base of your penis with a forehand grip and firmly glide your hand to the head of your penis. Then change to a backhand grip, so that when you slide your hand back down the shaft, your thumb will reach the base of your penis first. Stay with backhand and slide back up, then swap to forehand and slide back down. And repeat...

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Vibrators can heighten men's sensations and sexual fulfilment as well as their partner's. Whether you're on your own or having fun with your partner, we have come up with some techniques that should definitely spice things up for you. And remember; don't forget the lubricant, as the slipperier things are, the more enhanced your pleasure.

Techniques to Try

Explore your body: Rather than bringing yourself to orgasm as fast as possible, it can be very satisfying to delay things and pay the rest of your body some attention. Try stroking your inner arms and thighs, the back of your neck or your nipples, which are often just as sensitive in men as they are in women. Then lead down and gently tease your scrotum, perineum and eventually your anus. When you no longer have the patience to carry on, then directly stimulate your penis.

Vary your grip: Varying your grip on your penis when you masturbate can create new sensations and may even feel as if someone else is doing it for you. Try tightening then relaxing your handgrip, using both hands, or even reversing your grip. Even just changing the hand you normally use can dramatically change the sensation, as can varying the speed from fast to a breathtaking slow.

Let your imagination be your guide. Vibrators are designed for women, but your partner can join in the action too. Incorporating your vibrator into your foreplay and lovemaking can be a lot of fun for both of you.

Don't just concentrate on the obvious areas - experiment using your vibrator on some other highly sensitive erogenous zones, try stroking each other's nipples with the vibrator. Areas like the inside of the elbow, the back of the knee and the nape of the neck are also highly charged with sensitive nerve endings that respond well to the vibrations.

During penetrative sex, if the woman holds her vibrator against her clitoris while her male partner enters her vagina from the front or behind you will both feel the vibrations. Most men enjoy the vibration sensation on their testicles.

Or you could try very gently caressing the head of the penis with the vibrator.

Many men also enjoy having the area around the buttocks and anus stimulated.The Possibilities are Endless. For more information visit our site at Sinlesstouch.com

We're all unique. Different things work for different women, so these are suggestions on how to use your Vibrator.

1. Try wearing silky pants or a thong and run your vibrator over your vagina and clitoris.
2. When you begin to feel aroused, take off your underwear and squeeze Lubricant on your vaginal lips and clitoris. Use a circling motion over the whole area, but pay particular attention around your clitoris.
3. Now try a circling movement around your vaginal lips and up and around your clitoris and back down again to your vaginal lips. As you become more excited, apply a little more pressure and speed to heighten the sensations.
4. Slide your vibrator backwards and forwards over you vaginal lips and clitoris. Then try gently circling the clitoris for more intense stimulation.
5. As you become more aroused, place the head of your vibrator directly on your clitoris and alternate pressing and releasing your hold - play around with the vibration settings to find the perfect vibration.
6. Once you feel highly aroused, circle the clitoris repeatedly with your vibrator. When you feel close to orgasm, press your vibrator on and around the clitoris.

Try some suggestions to create the right mood and get the most out of your vibrator.

1. Start by setting the scene in the room you wish to use. Soft lighting or candles will create a warm and relaxed atmosphere. You may also like to use an aromatherapy oil burner to perfume the room with a seductive scent.
2. Play some music to create the right mood. You could choose a romantic song to put you in the right frame of mind, or a track with a strong bass beat that will match your growing sexual excitement.
3. Think about where you are going to use the vibrator. If you are seated on a chair, sofa or bed, cover it with satin or a crisp cotton sheet.
4. Once you have arranged the ideal venue, concentrate on yourself. Bathing or showering beforehand can help your skin to feel smooth and sexy, especially if you use a light bath or shower oil.
5. Spend time caressing and stroking your body all over before you start to use your Vibrator. If you want your vibrator to warm up; switch it on to the maximum setting for a few minutes ahead of use. It will become pleasantly warm and ready for you to use it.

Here's what to do if you want to bring your partner to orgasm regularly:

   1. don't be in a rush.
   2. don't be too demanding - it's not an Olympic event.
   3. talk to your partner, and ask her what she wants you to do to her.
   4. always create a romantic atmosphere.
   5. make sure that everything is comfortable and nice for her.
   6. give her lots of kisses and cuddles before you even think about making any approach to her sexual area.
   7. when you do start to stroke, rub or kiss her genitals, don't rush into 'attacking' her clitoris. Take things gently, and see what she wants.
   8. use her own natural lubrication to moisten her clitoris. (If she is over 40, it may be a good idea to use some additional lubrication from SinlessTouch).
   9. remember that stimulation of the clitoris is the key to female orgasm.
  10. sometimes encourage her to 'run' your sex sessions. You can learn a lot by watching how she stimulates herself or by really listening to her when she suggests a sex position, or a particular caress.

These days most women want orgasms. That wasn't always the case. A couple of generations or so ago, many adult females simply didn't have climaxes - and a lot of them weren't bothered about it. Probably a lot of them didn't actually know what an orgasm was.

And some doctors claimed that, for a huge proportion of women, it was 'normal' to have no experience of orgasm. Indeed, as late as the 1970s there were still some who maintained that the female orgasm didn't exist - and was simply a myth made up by the media.

All that has changed now. These days, medical opinion is that every woman should be able to have orgasms - if she wants to. Furthermore, the view of most sex experts is that the majority of women are capable of multiple orgasms - if they wish to have them. In general, the ability to have multiple orgasms is greater in more mature women.

Most women can eventually achieve the capacity for multiple orgasms - if they so desire.

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The other big difference between male and female orgasm is this: after the first climax, many women can 'come' again, often within a minute or two.

This ability is extremely rare in males. Relatively few young women can achieve multiple orgasm, because it's an ability that usually has to be learned. But with the help of a skilled lover, most women can eventually achieve the capacity for multiple orgasms - if they so desire.

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What happens in a woman's body during a climax is very like what happens in your (male) body when you ejaculate. In other words, there's a feeling of increasing excitement, building up to a point where everything 'blows' in a great blast of ecstasy. This 'orgasmic moment' is characterised by surges of contractions in the sex organs, occurring almost every 0.8 seconds.

Men are well aware that these throbs of pleasure are accompanied by the pumping out of spurts of seminal fluid. Obviously this doesn't happen in women.

A few females do produce some fluid at orgasm, but the impression given in so many erotic stories that most women 'ejaculate' is not correct. Only a minority of females do this.

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For men perhaps the most important thing to realise about female climaxes is that with women, it's not a mechanical thing - as it generally is with men.

You see, most males will ejaculate quite quickly if they have their penises rubbed. This applies even if the circumstances aren't very romantic.  Women are not like this. Female orgasm isn't a push-button response. The conditions have to be right.

Although females vary, many women need the following if they're going to reach a climax easily:

    * a romantic atmosphere
    * pleasant, comfortable surroundings
    * a partner who they really like
    * a feeling of being wanted and appreciated
    * a good flow of natural lubrication - so that the delicate female parts don't get sore
    * a skilled partner who knows how to stimulate the clitoris.

Unless you can provide the above, you are not going to have great success in giving your partner orgasms.

Please bear in mind that - contrary to what many men think - sexual intercourse by itself is not likely to produce an orgasm. This is because intercourse alone is not very good at stimulating the woman's clitoris. Nearly all females need additional stimulation of the clitoris by fingers or mouth or sex toys... why not?

So, try not to give the impression to your female partner that she 'ought' to be able to climax through intercourse alone and that that is what you think of as 'proper sex'. The sex menu can be a varied one. Some women, for example, find it really easy to climax through oral sex - particularly if the guy is patient and sensitive to what his partner wants. And how does he find out what she wants and what turns her on? Well, a wise man will ask her.

What he should not do is to assume that his technique is flawless and that if his partner does not come, it's her fault. Plenty of men think that because a previous girlfriend always came a certain way, this one should follow suit. Women are not all the same in their likes or dislikes. So do try to treat your partner as an individual.

Many women like much more foreplay, romantic games than men imagine. They want to feel that the man is keen on giving pleasure - and not just in a hurry to have his own climax. In fact, the worst thing a man can say to a woman is: 'Haven't you come yet?' This is likely to make her feel extremely inadequate and will ruin any build-up of sexual pleasure and tension that might have been taking place.

1. G spot vibrators - Some vibrators have a curved tip and are sold as g spot vibrators. These toys can make it easier to reach the g spot but they are no guarantee that you'll enjoy g spot stimulation. Also, any firm vibrator can be used to stimulate the g spot.

2. Safety tip: vaginal or anal penetration. If you want to insert a vibrator anally, only use vibrators designed for anal penetration. The sex toy should be smooth and seamless, and should have a flared base to prevent it from slipping all the way in.

3. Vibrator strength trick. If you're using a vibrator on a partner and you want to vary the strength of the vibration you can do this by grabbing the vibrator tighter and getting a larger grasp on it. When you do this your hand absorbs more of the vibration and to the person on the other end it feels like the vibration is getting a bit lower. Loosen your grip and the strength will come back.

4. Take your batteries out. Get in the habit of taking your batteries out of the vibrator each time your finished using it. If you leave the batteries in, the vibrator may turn on to a very low speed and this can both burn out the motor and make for some embarrassing moments when everyone at dinner is wondering where that buzzing is coming from. Also, if you leave your vibrator alone for extended periods with the batteries in, they can corrode and leak into the battery case, destroying your vibrator.

1. Get to know your vibrator.Take your sex toy out of the package and get to know how it works and what kind of batteries it takes. Play with the buttons and switches and find out how many speeds and settings it has. Wash your vibrator well before using it. If it isn't waterproof, be careful not to get any water near the battery case. Check for sharp edges or seams. Make sure the body of the vibrator isn't coming apart from the battery pack and that all wires are solid and secure. If there are any flaws, return your vibrator before you use it.

2. Start on your own.Even if you're planning on using your vibrator with a partner, it's a good idea to check it our by yourself first. You'll feel less self-conscious and/or you can really concentrate on how it feels for you without being distracted by a partner. Make sure you have a little time and enough privacy.

3. Play with the lights on. Not everyone will be comfortable with this one, and vision may not be a sense you rely on, but playing with a vibrator with the lights on can be very educational and useful.

4. Turn it off before you turn it on. Get comfortable with the feel of the vibrator on your body. Run the vibe along your body without even turning it on. Notice how it feels. Press it firmly against your skin and massage your muscles with it. If the vibrator is a hard material this will probably feel nice.

5. Move your vibrator from the outside in.Once you turn it on, start by touching the vibrator to your feet and your hands. Run it up and down your arms and legs, across your belly, your shoulders and neck, your scalp and face. Again, you can start with some clothes on if you like. Even though vibrators are used mostly around the vulva and clitoris, don't just jump to the main event. Get a feel for the vibration all over your body and then slowly move to the more sensitive parts. You can slowly move the vibrator up your inner thigh, or in circles around your breasts and nipples.

6. Don't rush: Explore every inch.The great thing about vibrators is that they never get tired, and they let you explore every inch of your body for sexual pleasure. Most women use vibrators for clitoral stimulation and many women report that one side -- or even one portion -- of their clitoris responds to vibration more than another. Think of yourself as an explorer, and the vibrator is both your compass and your flashlight. Don't rush, leaving a vibrator in place can allow it to establish sensation connections that previously weren't there.

7. Play with the speed of the vibrator.Most vibrators have multiple speed settings (or at least two settings). Always start on a low setting and work your way up. If a vibrator feels too strong at first you can put a towel between you and the vibrator, or just press it lightly against your body. You may find that on some areas a lower speed is all you need, and on others stronger is better. Some vibrators have "pulsation" settings, but you can also play with turning the strength up and down in rapid succession.

8. Play with pressure.Experiment with applying different pressure. You may enjoy a lot of deep pressure with clitoral stimulation or you may want to hold a vibrator just slightly above the body. You can press your vibrator deep into your skin and massage the muscles while also feeling the stimulation of the motor. With most battery-powered vibrators, the more pressure you apply the lower the vibration feels. Also the stronger you hold your vibrator, the more vibration gets absorbed by your hand. Experiment with everything from a feather light touch to a self-love smack down, and find what works for you.

9. On point or flat out. Most vibrators will have a point or an edge. Try touching yourself with the finest point of the vibrator. Next put the widest or flattest part of your vibrator against your body. When you focus on one point, the vibrations can feel more intense than when the vibration is being dispersed around a wider area. You may find that the feel of the vibrator on your labia, or above your clitoris feels awesome. Because the clitoris extends inside the body, deep vibration in this area can feel great, and different than direct clitoral stimulation.

10. Using a vibrator for penetration. Most women use vibrators for external stimulation, but as long as your vibrator is safe for penetration there's no reason not to try it. A vibrator that is safe for penetration will be smooth, have no rough edges, and won't absorb bodily fluids. In almost all cases. it's recommended to put a condom over a vibrator if you're using it for penetration. You should also use water based lubricant when using a vibrator for penetration.

11. Exploring penetration with a vibrator.Start slow with penetration and get yourself aroused by using the vibrator externally first. While far more nerve endings are outside the vagina than inside, lots of women enjoy penetration with a vibrator. Some women will use a vibrator to find and stimulate the g spot. It has also been hypothesized that nerve endings in the cervix respond to stimulation and pressure. Pressing the vibrator against the top of your vagina may provide g spot stimulation or even indirect clitoral stimulation.

12. Using your vibrator with a partner. You can use your vibrator with your partner in any number of ways. You can control the vibe, using it on yourself to add stimulation during sex play with a partner. You can use the vibrator on your partner. You can also find a vibrator that fits well between you and your partner that neither of you need to control, but can add stimulation during sex. However you want to do it, it's a good idea for each of you to follow the above steps first, and get fully comfortable on your own before making it a threesome.

If you're looking for a way to add a new level of fun and excitement to your next get together, adult party games might be the perfect solution.  Games can range from mildly suggestive to downright dirty, depending on the mood you want to create - and on the friends you're entertaining.  Naturally, these games work best when shared with close friends that you feel comfortable with.

Many people are hesitant the first time they consider breaking out the adult party games at a get together.  However, it usually doesn't take long until nervous giggles turn into a genuine good time.  Count on plenty of wiggling eyebrows, knowing nods and secretive whispers as the fun heats up and everyone lets loose and enjoys themselves. At the end of the party, everyone may just leave with a few new ideas, and a memory of a great party between open minded adults.

There are few sights as alluring of a woman dressed in exotic lingerie.  Whether you like the "barely-there" look or your tastes tend more towards the naughty-but-nice, lingerie can make a woman feel as beautiful as she looks.  Exotic lingerie is unique in that it is often bought by both men and women as gifts to their partners.

Exotic lingerie can be found in a wide spectrum of designs, styles and materials.  Leather lingerie is a popular choice, and makes an especially effective complement to bondage gear.  Lacy teddies are a great way to accentuate a woman's femininity without undermining her sexual appeal.  And of course, there's something in between for everyone and every occasion - there's no reason not to buy one for every mood!

Even the most passionate couples can use a little innovation and fun in the bedroom.  Busy schedules, familiarity and the everyday demands of life can leave things feeling a little too comfortable.  However, it's not difficult to breathe new life into intimate encounters.  Trying new things, and perhaps being a little adventurous can make things feel brand new again.  Romantic games  designed specifically for couples, can make things fun and exciting again. I would recommend Nookii which is geared  toward couples looking for new ways to explore each other.

I feel that true sexual enjoyment is more than just an occasional event, it's a way of life.  Sex is a central part of our lives, and influences our lives in countless ways, from the decisions we make to the people we partner with.  Sex isn't supposed to be taboo, or guilt-inducing, it should be fun, fulfilling, and liberated.  To this end, select products that are meant not just to improve your sex life, but to make you feel more confident in your sexuality, and follow a truly sinless way of life.  Whether you're searching for sensual lingerie, exciting romantic games or DVDs and books, the products should be liberating as they are sexual.




 

Though hardcore BDSM sex toys certainly aren't for everyone, light bondage gear  like Rachel's Bed Spread With Cumfy Cuffs can be just enough to heat things up in a long-term relationship.  Partners can experienced heightened sensations through its use, which are stimulating without being threatening.  Maybe you and your partner will decide to dig deeper into the world of consensual bondage, or maybe you'll decide to stick to the basics.  Either way, you'll enjoy a stronger connection with experimental bondage.  

No bedposts? No problem! Bondage has never been easier with these fully adjustable straps made to fit any size bed. Includes comfy wrist and ankle cuffs for the ultimate bed bondage experience. Find an adult partner and take turns strapping each other down for a night of wild sex.

The human body has a limited number of sexual options that is... unless you use a sex swing. The advantages of sex swings  include being able to adopt sexual positions not otherwise possible and providing a more comfortable sexual experience for both partners by reducing the limitations of weight and gravity. If you want to inject some fun and play back to your sexual repertoire, there's nothing better than The Love Swing. Enjoy hundreds of sexual positions and take your lovemaking to new heights.

Do you love to swing? Then you'll love the Love Swing! Swing into any sex position using this comfortable, adjustable, padded adult sex swing. The sturdy straps will hold you and your partner as you stand, sit, spin and swing as a couple into sexy new positions. Get ready for a swinging time!

Add these essential products to your adult toy collection, and you and your lover will be set for a lifetime of lovemaking!

Perhaps this is an obvious choice, but vibrators are amazing tools for enhancing sexual relations.  Conveniently, they come in all shapes and sizes, so it isn't hard to find a good fit. Vibrators are designed to reach the g-spot, titillate the clitoris, and deliver powerful orgasms -- sometimes all at the same time. But women don't need to fantasize alone with their vibes.  Not only are these toys great for the female body, but they feel pretty great for men as well. Vibrators are the most common of adult toys, so even timid romantic partners should be open-minded enough to give them a try!

The next evolution in the iVibe line the Ivibe Rabbit Strawberry is on everyone's wish list! This is the ultimate in sex toys - the vibrator you just can't live without. Put the beaded ribbed strawberry-colored soft shaft to work and let the pearl beads squirm and turn around the vibrating shaft while the rabbit stimulates outside for an explosive orgasm. The usable length of the iVibe is 5" while it has a 1.5"diameter. With so many speeds and functions this is the only vibrator you may ever need!
 

Lubricants make sex toys and sex play not only feel better, but also more safe. Think about what happens when you're having sex: the body creates natural lubrication so you and your partner don't hurt each other with too much friction. While your body can make a lot of it (especially with female ejaculation) the kind of "slickness" that lubricants provide can be very hot! The same logic applies to using adult toys, either with a partner or during solo play. Really, I don't think there's such thing as too much lubrication. Even if you lubricate naturally, a dab of extra lubricant on your toy or a body part is a highly recommended addition. It's better to be safe and slippery than sorry and sore!

Wet Platinum Premium Body Glide is extra concentrated making it longer lasting with less need for reapplications. Wet Platinum is guaranteed to never become sticky and feels silky smooth. Great for moisturizing body massage and skin conditioning. Also revitalizes dry leather and latex clothing without harming material. The silicone based lubricant stays slick under water too!

Steam things up with a sexy bubble bath or shower.  Fill your tub deliciously with the Glow In The Dark Bubble Bath then dive in for a relaxing and intimate splash.
 
It's bath time! Flick off the lights fill up the tub and watch your bubbles glow in the dark. Just expose the novelty glow in the dark bubble bath to light and add water. You and your partner can suds up together in the glow of the bubbles. Let the bath time fun begin!

Are things getting a little too steamy?  Whip out the Pulsabath Vibrating Sponge Yellow to lighten the mood. You'll both be so hot as you rub every delicate part of each other's bodies.

Use PulsaBath wet or dry. Its soft porous spongy texture absorbs soap or lotion making it glide softly on the skin. The PulsaBath Vibrating Bath sponge is completely waterproof so use it freely in the bath shower or hot tub. Its vibrating massage action will invigorate yet relax tired muscles. The diameter is 4" and uses 2 AA size batteries not included. For a thrilling encounter use it on your lover!

You're almost ready for the final stop on your romantic adventure, so wrap yourselves up in some luxurious, fluffy towels and head to the bedroom to end your evening with a real bang!
 

If Old Wives' tales remind you not to go swimming immediately after a meal, it's probably not a good idea to jump straight into bed either!  Remember, you're planning a sensual evening, not a marathon in the bedroom.  Once you've finished dining, lead your lover into the room you've lit with deliciously scented candles, and introduce him or her to a new romantic tradition -- a lover's game. Allow me to give you the Fore-Playing Cards Game.
 

Aaah foreplay - whatever you might think of this sexual ritual you can make it an even better experience with Fore-Playing cards. It's the perfect way to start an evening of adult fun with your lover. Includes "sexual suggestion" cards love candles for setting the mood and an invitation to an evening of sexual adventure - all leading up to what you've been waiting for.

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