March 2009 Archives

Everyone knows that eating chocolate and wearing fancy lingerie can spice up your sex life, but there are a number of little known ways to make things more interesting that you may not have considered. Whether it's eating the right food, or just getting a handle on your stress level, there are many things you can do to get a better libido.
These are a few things you can do with your partner to jump start your libido in the bedroom.
 

1.    Use sex toys: Although intimidating for some, sex toys can make sex more interesting and enticing.

2.    Watch porn: It does not work for everyone, but porn can help get you in the mood, or help you discover new things.

3.    Be more adventurous: Keep the interest alive by being willing to try new things.

4.    Get out of the bedroom: Explore new places to have sex, like the kitchen or your neighborhood park to spice things up.

5.    Talk dirty: Whether you're in the bedroom or out on a date, don't be shy about talking dirty.

6.    Fight boredom: If you're bored with sex, think of new ways you and your partner can connect.

7.    Leave the lights on: Toss out feelings of shame and embarrassment, and have more exciting sex with the lights on.

8.    Explore by touching new regions: Get away from traditional erogenous zones, and touch your partner some place new.

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Leave Him a Sexy Voice Mail at Work

Why: So he'll have a really compelling reason to get home on time.

How: You want to be suggestive and provocative -- not so explicit that he has to cover his lap at his next meeting. Just turn on your sweetest or most sultry voice and murmur something like the following.

"Do you remember when you asked me to [fill in the blank with some sexual request from him that you were too tired or timid to act on]? I've been thinking about it all day, and I can't wait to see you tonight!"

"I was going through my lingerie drawer and remembered how you get when I wear [fill in the blank]. Well...I'm planning to wear it tonight."

"I've spent the last hour thinking about how incredibly sexy you are, and how you're the only man who can turn me on. When you get home tonight, I want to prove it to you."

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Strip
Why: Because he really -- please, baby, please -- wants you to.

How: Visualize yourself strutting your stuff in a way you can be comfortable with: Maybe something kittenish, coy and old-fashioned -- all feather fans and boas. Or something bold and crazy, like pole dancing, or more 1930s cabaret. This will help get you in the mood for showtime, and only when you feel sexy, can you act sexy. Attitude trumps attire here. Instead opt for clothing with easy closures (snaps, not buttons) or no closures, such as a simple sexy slip. Take a look in our sexy costumes.

Music is optional; rehearsal is not. Do a dry run, just you and the mirror, testing out moves, like slinking with your arms above your head, slowly twirling, maybe teasingly flashing a little flesh. Dance for a while, then practice sliding the straps of the slip off your shoulders and pulling it down over your hips or up over your head.  When you feel comfortable with the movements, they start to look good.

Embarrassed? Shy? This will help: Keep on your feather boa or scarf -- which makes a great prop anyway -- or your bra or panties. Plenty of strippers have made a mint by holding something back, so it's not just a good psychological comfort, it's a great gimmick!

Wake Him Up in the Morning

Why: So he'll start his day with a smile -- at the very least.

How: To hand your man a sexy surprise one morning. I suggest taking off that supersize T-shirt and slipping into a satiny nightie. Then climb back into bed and start nuzzling his neck, rubbing his back, maybe landing a few butterfly kisses (softly flutter your eyelashes against his skin) on his cheek. As he crawls toward consciousness, murmur, "Open your eyes: I've got a surprise for you." Just make sure you turn off the alarm; you're not going to want any interruptions after that.

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We will teach you step by step how to tie a tie. Learn how to tie his tie for him

Why: Because it's such a sexy, retro, little-wife move.

How: To make the classic half-Windsor knot, hang the tie around his neck, with the narrow end on his left side and the wide end hanging down about twice as long on his right side. Cross the wide end over (to his left), under (to his right), and then back over the narrow end. Now pull the wide end up through the opening at his neck and down through the loop you've just made. Tighten the knot, but not all the way. Putting your thumb or forefinger just below the knot, make that small, sexy dimple you've seen on men of style, then pull the knot up to his neck and tighten it.

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Sometimes we all need a good massage.  Why: Because there's more than one way to make a guy moan in complete and utter satisfaction.

How: Make him putty in your hands with these tips.

1. Setting the mood: Dim the lights, put on calming music, and light some candles. Then have him lie down on a mat (since it's firmer than a bed).

2. Add a few drops of essential oil (such as lavender, which is calming, or citrus for a more invigorating rub) to mild vegetable oil (meaning something with no scent -- say, corn or canola oil rather than peanut or olive). Kneel, either at his head or by his side. Now pour a quarter-size drop of oil into one palm, rub your hands together, and hold them about an inch above his body, moving your hands up his spine so he can sense the heat.

3. Slowly slide your hands down his upper back, down both sides of his spine, and over his sacrum (the triangular bone at the base of his spine). Gently squeeze his buttocks, then hook your fingertips under his hipbones (one hand per hipbone) and run your hands up his sides, with your thumb on top and your fingers cupped around his rib cage; then let your hands travel across his shoulders and up his neck. Rest them on the back of his head.

4. Get ready to work it. Begin stroking up the sides of his back, gradually increasing pressure and eventually putting your full weight on the heels of your palms or even your elbows. Move parallel to his spine or zigzag your hands across it: Tuck both hands under one side, then draw them alternately across his back, letting one hand overlap with the other. Another neat trick: Knead fleshy areas, such as his bottom, with your fists (but don't apply direct pressure to bony areas, like the spine).

5. For a fabulous finish, try "feathering": lightly brushing his body with your fingertips. "That really soothes the nerves. 

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It's (surprise!) the little things. Learn how to make the steak of his dreams, play poker like one of the boys -- and 11 other moves that'll super-glue your marriage.

So far you've gotten along just fine as a wife, riding on your considerable skills as a lover, best friend, and career adviser.

But why sit still? Why not, instead, be a surprising, fun, smart, knows-it-all-does-it-all wife who just blows him away with her wonderfulness? Sound exhausting? We have compiled an essential list of wifely skills guys love -- along with easy secrets for mastering them from the experts who should know.

Learn each at your leisure, then spring them on him gradually, adding layer upon layer of, well, awe.

Oh, and by the way, here's what's in it for you: a totally content and grateful husband, a more playful and interesting marriage, and the proud feeling you'll get every time you take on a new challenge -- and triumph!

Play Poker
Why: So you can socialize his way for a change.

How: The most popular home version of this casino classic is seven-card stud, says Debbie Burkhead, a professional poker player in Las Vegas. How it works: The dealer gives each player three cards, two of them facedown (you can look at your own). You place your first bet this round, "seeing" (matching) or "raising" (increasing) the previous bet, depending on the quality of your hand. (If it's really bad, you can "fold," meaning that you opt out of a hand.) After a round of betting, each player gets another card, until all players either have folded or are holding seven cards. The winner of the pot is the player with the best five of seven cards.

So how do you know how good your hand is? Hands rank as follows, from best to worst; each hand beats all the hands listed below it. The higher your cards in any given hand, the better; aces are high, deuces (2s) are low.

Straight flush: five cards of the same suit, in sequence (e.g., 5, 6, 7, 8, and 9 of clubs)
Full house: a pair and a triple (e.g., two 3s, three 4s)
Flush: five cards of one suit, in any order
Straight: five cards in sequence, in any suit
Three of a kind: three cards of the same number
Two pairs: two sets of two cards of the same number
One pair: two cards of the same number.

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If your Friday nights are mostly spent boring on the couch with your man, you need to visit Sinless Touch!

These suggestions should get you started:

1.    LELO MIA - PINK - This elegant pink lipstick vibrator nestles seductively in your handbag, her size and chargeability making her available whenever needed, whether on a long intercontinental flight or during a break on a busy day.

2.    WILD EXOTICS REMOTE CONTROL VIBRATING PANTY O/S TIGER - Let your lover or even close friend, control when and where your panties will go wild on you!

3.    FETISH FANTASY ULTRA INFLATABLE POSITION MASTER - Master amazing sexual positions all night long! The Ultra Inflatable Position Master is slanted, flocked, and provides a non-sliding surface for ultimate comfort.

4.    KAMA SUTRA THE BEDSIDE BOX - Bedside portions are tucked discreetly into this elegant wood box adorned with a subtle Kama Sutra Logo.

5.    DIRTY DICE GAME 1 DOZEN - Let the good times roll with Dirty Dice.

6.    A BED OF ROSES KIT - RED - Seduce your lover with a bed full of beautiful, fragrant, red rose petals.

7.    SCHOO GIRL HALTER TOP W/ATTACHED TIE, SKIRT - This School Girl costume includes a stretchy halter-top, plaid skirt with open back, ruffled back panties and matching necktie.

8.    STRAPLESS MESH BABYDOLL  - Bring something new to the bedroom with Dreamgirl.

9.    JAPANESE DOLL-SATIN DRESS - This stunning outfit includes a satin kimono dress with tapestry sash.

Being able to talk about sex is one of the most important ingredients to getting what you want. That's definitely the case when picking out sex toys. The first and most important step is to try to figure out what you and your partner would like out of the experience. Be as specific and honest with each other as possible.

Looking at Sinless Touch together and finding products that interest you is a great way to start that discussion. If you and your partner would like to try incorporating a vibrator into your routine, talk about what kind of sensations you would like to explore. A vibrator that focuses on clitoral stimulation is different than one used for penetration, or one that lets you experience both.

This holds equally true for anal sex. Saying something like "I want to try an anal toys" can make one person think of a 7-inch realistic looking dildo and another think of a butt plug or anal beads.

Being honest also includes discussing any physical limitations or allergies you might have. If you know you are allergic to latex, prone to yeast infections, or simply have a bad back, there are certain products to avoid. Materials, colors, sizes, and functions are just a few of the basic components you should consider when picking out your toys.

Our product descriptions can help you find out which items will work best for you. The more specific you can be about your intentions, the easier it will be to find a toy that fits your desires and needs.

There are lots of popular recommendations saying how to recover from hangover but none of them mentions sex or sex toys.
 
Hangover usually means headache, thirst, stomach aches and depressive spirits that may also provoke suicides. The low spirits and poor health condition in hangover are connected with temporary disbalance of hormones that generate positive emotions. If a person suffering from hangover chooses to have sex or buy a vibrator then his or her organism will get the hormones of endorphins and oxytocins. Oxytocins stimulate muscle contraction and bring down people's aggressiveness to others.
 
Mind that sex therapy must be obligatorily safe. So use condoms and other contraceptives to get protected from genital infections. One should know that sex is heavy physical and emotional job for the human organism, and it may be harmful for diseased or weak people.

People suffering from heart diseases, coronary heart disease in particular, hypertension and the like must be particularly careful when enjoying sex therapy. If a human needs medical aid sex will on no occasion be a good substitution of medical care and medications in this case.
Regular active sex is a regular physical activity that strengthens heart, burns calories and exercises muscles. This must be the most pleasant type of fitness that costs you absolutely nothing.

As sex makes local blood supply better it works as wonderful prophylaxis of gynecological and urological disorders with men and women.
Do not forget that emotions and pleasure in sex are more important than the techniques employed for sexual exercises. Sex without emotions and delight will on the contrary have no positive effect for the organism as it works only through emotions.

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It's that time of year, again. Spring is just around the bend, winter is ready to shut its eyes for a while and Irish eyes are smiling. March 17th is St. Patrick's Day and it is the most romantic holiday on the calendar. Shocking, no?

Aside from the plastic Leprechaun hats, shamrocks, green beer and corned beef as far as the eye can see; St. Patrick's Day is not what I would call a soulless commercial event. It's about revelry and retailers nothing more than unbridled revelry.

St. Patty's is about a real event: chasing the snakes from Ireland. What's more romantic than riding an entire island of animal responsible for mankind expulsion from the Garden of Eden?

Not buying it? Fine. What about the color green? Some people associate green with envy but those people forget that green as the color of fertility and, therefore, general sexiness. And people are actually encouraged to pinch people who are not wearing green. Is there a better way to kick-start romance than pinching or proving to someone that you're wearing green via showing them your undergarments?

Need more? Happy to oblige but first, "kiss me, I'm Irish." There are more people of Irish descent in the United States than all of the Emerald Isles. Chances are, you could make this request and eventually someone would comply because, hey, it's your day, Paddy.

If you're still not convinced, then let me help you, Alcohol. Homer Simpson says it's the cause and solution to all of life's problems. I go not that far. I will say that I am positive that alcohol has been responsible for the formation of more relationships than any other substance. Is that a good thing?  St. Patrick's Day is like Mardi Gras but without the looming moral hangover of Ash Wednesday.


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Sound familiar? If you have slept with your ex-partner, you are not alone. It's only natural to want to return to what's familiar. How often have you heard someone say, "We never really got along -- but the sex was great," or "We had nothing in common except for the bedroom."

Having sex with your ex isn't necessarily a bad thing, provided you are able to keep things into an emotional perspective. For most of us however, this is a near impossibility given our relational history with the person and the harm they caused us. How do you avoid an emotional disaster when confronted with the decision of having "sex with the ex?"

Consider asking yourself the following six questions:

1. Will having sex with my ex cause emotional pain?

2. Is my ex trying to use sex as a way of getting back into a relationship?

3. Will I be repeating the same patterns of the past with this person by opening up the sexual door?

4. Will I be betraying any promises to myself by allowing this person into my life again, if even in a sexual capacity?

5. How will having sex with my ex cause me to feel afterwards?

6. Are my motives purely physical, or is there something more?

7. Will having sex with this person help me to create a sense of closure or a misguided sense of connection?

8. Am I having sex with the person because of repressed feelings of guilt for breaking off the relationship?

Try to remember the reasons you decided to break off the relationship with your ex in the first place.  Keep focusing on the reasons as to why you ended the relationship and then stick to your guns. Don't be afraid to tell your ex-partner that you want to keep the relationship non-sexual. And don't worry, in time you will meet someone new and build the relationship of your dreams!

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Romantic games

 

 

Great sex is an active ingredient in all healthy love relationships. Sex is fun and pleasure is good for us. Making love is surrendering to a higher form of energy than any one love partner can experience alone. Making love is two love partners experiencing their oneness with each other.

When we make love, we are much greater than the sum of our parts. It is spiritual as well as physical. We never forget the spiritual source of our love. Making love is a Divine idea. We never allow making love to become the supreme expression of the absence of God in our lives.

Sex gives us an enormous opportunity to exercise responsibility. I believe that the sexual experience is immeasurably heightened when both love partners feel free to mutually share their likes and dislikes, cares and concerns and honor each other for their choices. It is the ultimate expression of the joy of life; of being together.
 
The highest form of pleasure comes when you give yourself fully with love, creating a mystical ecstasy that allows both love partners to be lost in time and space, if only for a few brief moments.
 
The intimate and trusting atmosphere we create together allows an occasional flirting with mutually acceptable fantasies, a powerful stimulus to sexual pleasure. Anything goes as long as love prevails: touch, tongue, tickle; silk, satin, lace; the kitchen table, the hot tub.

Making love is an open window of discovery, an exciting adventure of each other, allowing exploration of a depth of passion attainable to only the few.
 
Foreplay is often found in the quietness of loving words.

In an atmosphere of safety and trust, we derive much pleasure from giving a full-body massage and receiving one, never neglecting any part of our bodies. The deliberate, slow motion of massage stirs passion and builds desire. It allows us to tune in to our lover¹s innermost feelings.

Candlelight, soft music, romantic games, a glass of wine, fragrant oils, a vibrating panties, a soft feather, a vibrator or two and more are all a sacred part of this Divine ritual. We use our imagination and enjoy one another. We savor the magic of the moment. Massage is communicating with sensitivity what we find most pleasurable and erotic; it is making love with our fingers.

When you're thinking about buying a sex toy it's important to take a few things into account: quality of the product, design, and materials (what it's made of). Sex toys are not well regulated so it's important that you, the consumer, know what to look for and what to avoid.
Often with sex toys, it pays to spend a bit more money and invest in products made of silicone, stainless steel, or glass (depending on the type of toy) rather than other materials.
 
The type of toy is also a consideration. You mentioned that you are interested in a penis sleeve or a masturbator. A masturbation sleeve mimics the size, shape, and feel of the inside of a vagina or rectum, or sometimes a mouth. Generally used with lube, these toys can provide an alternative to the digital variety of loving your love-maker. When buying, one element of the toy to consider is how easy it will be to clean; are both ends open? Is it possible to turn the sleeve inside-out for washing? Using soap and water to wash, and drying the toy thoroughly after each use, will keep you, and the toy, humming longer.

Additional safety considerations include:

•  Does the sleeve vibrate or have moving parts? If so, it's probably battery powered or plugs into an electrical socket, and may not be safe for use in the shower or tub. If underwater play is desired, look for waterproof toys.
 
•  What's the proper lube? Using lotion or oil on latex is a no-no, as is using silicone-based lube on silicone toys (the toys will degrade) -- generally water-based lubes are a safe bet.

 

In the beginning, it is so sweet. Being with your lover is all you seem to think about, giving you that great intimacy that you need, besides sex. Years go by and things are still quiet the same, but something has changed, their behavior, coming in late and always having to work over time, secretive phone calls and lack of sex. You put a lot into this relationship and to be betrayed is something that will not be tolerated. You think you know what is going on, but you are not sure. If you see your spouse doing a few of these things, it necessarily does not mean they are cheating. If they are here are the events that take place when someone you love is cheating.

1.A change in his underwear like buying new underwear that he normally does not wear.

2.Hangs up the phone the moment you walk into the room.

3.Immediately taking a shower after coming home

4.Smell of someone else's perfume or cologne.

5.Leaving out the house to go the store and does not come back for hours.

6.Lack of sex

7.Quick to throw an attitude at you, getting less attention and makes you feel like you done something wrong.

8.Not having enough money to support the hours that came from working over time.

9.Marks on the body that could have came from sexual contact.

10.May not be able to get an erection or sexually aroused from sexual activity with someone  else.

Trying to stop masturbating is challenging because masturbation serves so many purposes; for example, it can help people relax or energize them. Orgasm can make sleeping easier and more restful, and/or it can help start the day with an energized calm. It's understandable if you're finding it difficult to give up masturbation; masturbating and finding sexual satisfaction are as natural and healthy as eating, drinking, and sleeping.

Masturbation and intercourse are different experiences. Masturbation does not have to diminish the experience of intercourse, nor the other way around. For many people, it is not a one or the other concept or reality.

Physiologically speaking, many men and women say that their orgasms are more intense through their own touch. This doesn't take into account, however, the feelings of being with another person, with his or her arms around you and body near you. Additionally, knowledge of one's "hot spots;" emotional state; energy level; stress; the movement, fit, texture, and pressure of whatever's stimulating you (fingers, sex toys, a vibrator, a penis, etc.); your level of arousal; alcohol and other drug use; and, your feelings about the partner you're with (if you're with anyone) all contribute to orgasm and pleasure.

For most people, orgasm from intercourse is less intense because their own masturbation pattern differs from the sensation of arousal or response when they are with someone. For women, in particular, the pleasure from masturbation is more intense than both the experience of intercourse and orgasm through intercourse, for different reasons.

During intercourse, while a woman experiences closeness, tenderness, and lust, she does not usually get the stimulation on her clitoris that she is used to or familiar with from masturbation. And, according to sex research, more than 2/3 of women do not orgasm during intercourse at all. So buy a sex toy and be really HAPPY!

It's the bounce that counts! The 65 cm/25.6" Sexerciseball is discreet when not in use.
This product is more than just a sex toy. The discreet color coded screw thread cap allows you to store the ball anywhere when it is not in use.
A foot pump is included with every Serciseball to pump up the fun. Use the Sexerciseball with the vibrating attachments that are sold separately and give your sex life a work out!

"Precious Realistic Vibrating Cock" simply screws into the patented Sexerciseball for a workout you will not soon forget! The life like 6.5" x 5.5" vibrating realistic cock offers 6 vibrating modes and is made from flesh-like rubber material complete with vein texture. This is the must-try ultimate pleasure experince - not just a sex toy! Precious comes with a wireless remote control and a free 50ml sample of Sexerciseme lube. Use 3 AAA batteries (not included) for vibrations. Get on & get off!

"Buzz Bunny Vibrating Clitoral Stimulator" simply screws into the patented Sexerciseball! This adorable 4.5" x 4" Buzz Bunny offers clitoral stimulating vibrations. Use the remote control for 6 different modes of vibrations. A free 50ml sample of Sexerciseme lube is included. Use 3 AAA batteries for vibrations (not included). This is a must try ultimate pleasure experience, a lot more than a toy!

If you are looking for a great way to enhance your sex life, one thing that you should be sure to take into consideration is sex furniture. There are a number of different types of sex furniture which may be able to make your sex life so much more enjoyable. So, what types are available for you to choose? We will take a closer look at sex furniture and all that it has to offer you.

One of the most popular pieces of sex furniture is a chair, which will assist you with all of your love-making needs. There are a variety of different benefits which are associated with using a chair as your sex furniture choice. Some of these benefits include the fact that they will allow you to be more flexible during lovemaking, try out new and interesting positions, or just provide you with a comfortable form of relaxation.

Another one of the main benefits of sex chairs is the fact that they are offered in a stylish manner. If you are looking to hide the fact that your chair is used for sex, chances are that you will be able to find a chair which will camouflage with the rest of your bedroom. You will find this particular piece of sex furniture offered in a variety of colors and patterns, including bold, solid colors as well as patterned designs.

As you can see, there are a variety of different types of sex furniture which you can decide to buy. The main benefit of sex furniture is that it will allow you to try out new positions (FETISH FANTASY ULTRA INFLATABLE POSITION MASTER), in a comfortable, relaxed manner. Another one of the main benefits is the fact that it can be found in a variety of modern designs- all of which you will be bound to enjoy. If you are looking for a great way to enhance your sex life, you should definitely consider purchasing sex furniture for yourself.

Small sex toys may be small, but they can pack a big punch. Take a look and you should get a good idea which Little Giant it's better for you.

We-Vibe

The We-Vibe is a brand new adult lifestyle luxury product from Standard Innovation Corp. Unique in design, this revolutionary product is the first ever toy that can be used while making love. The innovative design allows for both external and internal stimulation for women engaging in both solo and partner play.

Original Pocket Rocket

Take your orgasm with you wherever you go with the tiny 4" Pocket Rocket. Designed for clit stimulation, the bumpy massager cap is controlled by a twist bottom for varying speed and power. Don't leave home without this vibrator for adult pleasure on the go!

Regular cleaning is key to maintaining the integrity of the material of any sex toy. Be sure to wash before first use and immediately after each use before storing. Always be careful to keep water and cleanser away from battery cartridges and electrical parts.

The safest way to clean most of your sex toys is to use an antibacterial cleanser, such as CLIMAX BURSTS ANTI-BACTERIAL TOY CLEANER. This 4 fl. oz. antibacterial toy cleaner disinfects and preserves your toys. It features bursting green & yellow beads of Vitamin E to keep your toys conditioned. The pop-toy bottle is easy to use and keeps things neat!  However, each toy material is different and is best cleaned and cared for in its own special way.

Here's a breakdown of how to clean sex toys by material:

•    Silicone: Hypoallergenic and easiest to maintain, silicone dildos and non-battery-operated toys may be boiled for two to three minutes, or washed with soap and water. NEVER boil silicone sex toys with electrical components. Let them air dry completely or dry with a lint-free cloth before storing.

•    Plastic/Acrylic/Glass: All can be washed with warm water and anti-bacterial hand soap and sterilized using an alcohol-soaked cotton ball (rinse thoroughly afterward); acrylic and glass toys may be boiled or submerged in hot water if they're not battery-operated.

•    Rubber/Latex and Jelly: These products are extremely porous, so be sure to wash them thoroughly with warm water and anti-bacterial hand soap, and rinse so that no trace of soap is left, as it can degrade the material and cause irritation to you. Again, while it's a good idea to use a condom with any insertable toys, it's an especially good idea with these materials.

•    Realistic: Names include CyberskinTM, FuturoticTM, NeoSkin®, Soft TouchTM, UltraSkin, and FauxskinTM (if you're unsure of the type of material, check the packaging or product page, or contact Customer Service), and this type of material is widely used for erection rings and masturbation sleeves, as well as vibrators and dildos. Thoroughly wash with warm (never hot) water and a liquid antibacterial soap, then let air dry completely. Once dry, sprinkle with the included "renewing" powder or cornstarch. Never use talcum powder or baby powder, as these can cause irritation and sometimes larger problems for women