Ignite Your Passion: July 2008 Archives

Romantic Games - Bring A New Level of Passion

By

on July 31, 2008 10:58 AM | Permalink | Comments (0) | TrackBacks (0)

Even the most passionate couples can use a little innovation and fun in the bedroom. Busy schedules, familiarity and the everyday demands of life can leave things feeling a little too comfortable. However, it's not difficult to breathe new life into intimate encounters. Trying new things, and perhaps being a little adventurous can make things feel brand new again. Romantic Games designed specifically for couples, can make things fun and exciting again.

I feel that true sexual enjoyment is more than just an occasional event, it's a way of life. Sex is a central part of our lives, and influences our lives in countless ways, from the decisions we make to the people we partner with. Sex isn't supposed to be taboo, or guilt-inducing, it should be fun, fulfilling, and liberated. To this end, select products that are meant not just to improve your sex life, but to make you feel more confident in your sexuality, and follow a truly sinless way of life. Whether you're searching for sensual lingerie, exciting romantic games or DVDs and books, the products should be liberating as they are sexual.

Some of the things I could suggest would be to have some fun with food. Try some flavored body paint and see what kind of masterpieces you and your partner can create on each other. See what ideas you can think of with common food items such as honey, chocolate syrup or whipped cream. Another would be to get playful with sexy costumes. Try some creative role-playing. Think naughty schoolgirl and teacher, sexy nurse and patient, or detective and suspect. The possibilities are only limited by your imagination. Think of it as acting, watch it unfold and see if you end up in a very X-rated place.

People use romantic games for many reasons. It might be to bring flair to a comfortable relationship where the bright fire of passion has ebbed, or to experience new adventures with a new partner. Although the definition of sexual freedom varies from one individual to the next, the true heart of liberation is feeling free to pursue the experiences that you are comfortable with. When sex is shared between two willing adults, there's no reason to feel guilty or ashamed

Why Wear Lingerie?

By

Brandi

on July 30, 2008 12:41 PM | Permalink | Comments (0) | TrackBacks (0)

Lingerie may be the simplest and most effective tool in seduction. What man doesn't love looking at a woman in lingerie? Not only do men love seeing women in lingerie, something amazing usually happens when a woman puts on the right lingerie. She not only looks sexy, but she feels sexy, she becomes sexy. Lingerie can boost confidence and help shed inhibitions. The right lingerie can turn plain Jane into a smoldering sex kitten.

Gifts are wonderful but we all know the most appealing packages are those wrapped in pretty wrapping paper, ribbons and bows. The wrapping makes the gift that much more enticing. Plus unwrapping the present adds more excitement. That is the affect and lure of lingerie. You want to package your goodies enticingly and give your partner a surprise and sexy gift to unwrap.

Lingerie is a wonderful way to inspire romance and enhance your intimate encounters. Most of us save wearing lingerie for special occasions like Valentine's Day, birthdays or anniversaries, but it can be used at any time to add some extra heat to a relationship. Think of it as giving a surprise gift 'just because'. There is no better way to let a man know that you want him and men love to be wanted. When he sees you standing there in something sexy, slinky, lacy or racy he'll instantly know what you have in mind.

There are many types of lingerie to choose from. You can find everything from mild to wild from sweet and sensual lingerie to bold and risqué. Make sure to try lingerie on before buying if you can. Just because it looks good on the mannequin in the store or model in the catalog doesn't mean it will flatter you. Look for lingerie that enhances your natural assets and down plays or hides less flattering areas. For instance if you feel you have nice breasts but you hate your legs opt for a long flattering gown that accentuates your breasts and gives him a great view of your ample cleavage but seductively hides your legs.

Explore Fantasy Sexual Role Play

By

Brandi

on July 30, 2008 11:31 AM | Permalink | Comments (0) | TrackBacks (0)

Whether you're an expert at swinging from the ceiling vines, or a nervous newcomer to the idea of dressing up and getting down, fantasy sexual role play opens a new world of sexual possibilities.

You should know the difference between fantasy sexual role play and dirty talk. Having a few minutes of dirty talk just before you start having sex isn't the same as setting out a fantasy sexual role play scene. Fantasy sexual role play can take you deeper into another character and release you from the restrictions you put on yourself in your daily life. It means more preparation, and more risks, but the difference is palpable, and worth it!

Great fantasy sexual role play requires some forethought. Most people start out a bit shy and nervous with the idea of dressing up as someone else and playing a role. Much of this reticence comes from a lack of preparation. The best way to get comfortable with sexual role playing is to get prepared. It's hard to leap into action (and a loin cloth) if you've never thought about how Tarzan might sound, or what he might want to do with Jane, and all those vines.

Pick a fantasy sexual role that feels right. Cop, nurse, IT specialist... do some homework and pick a character that resonates with you. It's hard to play a cliché that has no personal meaning, so find one that fits. It is fantasy and you can push your boundaries while finding a character that you connect with in some way. Set your fantasy sexual role play scene as well. Details can take you deeper into a sexual role play scenario. When you first imagine a sexual scene the main points may be enough to get you going, but the more detail you can add to the fantasy the more alive it becomes. Details can also be great for awkward moments when you don't know what to do next.

Maybe the most fun part of the preparation is the sexy costumes. As adults we don't get to play nearly enough, and fantasy sexual role play is a perfect opportunity to dress up and have fun. Once you've decided on who you want to be, think about ways to add to your character and role through props. You could possibly add bondage gear in the mix.

Now that you know who you are, where you are, and what you're wearing, it's time to consider the psychology of your role. Analyze your character. What's your motivation? What turns your character on, what turns them off, what pushes their buttons or drives them wild? Are you dominant? Submissive? Do you switch back and forth? Don't' forget to set ground rules because it is very essential. Some of these rules should be common sense and common courtesy, like no laughing at someone, and no judging each other in the moment. Other rules will take some thought and good communication.

Use masturbation to explore fantasy sexual role play. When we think of fantasy sexual role playing we usually imagine it involves at least two people. But masturbation offers some of the most fertile ground for developing sexual fantasy scenes. When we're masturbating we are less likely to censor our thoughts and feelings.